Purposeful Dating // Dear Ladies, Don’t Play Hard To Get.

Other Posts in Purposeful Dating Series:

• for Contentment in Christ: click here

• for Answering Questions about Purposeful Dating: click here

• for Viewing Crushes in a Godly Way: click here

• for encouragement to Wait on the Lord: click here

• encouragement for The Girl Who The Guys Don’t Notice: click here

• encouragement to Savor Your Season of Singleness: click here

• for the Single Girl On Valentine’s Day: click here

• Why I Pray For and Write Letters To My Future Husband: click here

• How To Gracefully Say NO to a Guy: click here

• Why Flirting With Guys Doesn’t Lead Them Closer To Christ: click here

• for Godly Guy Friendships: click here

• for the Dangers of a Texting Relationship: click here

Dear ladies,

Don’t play hard to get.

BE hard to get.

Be so hidden in Christ that a man must seek Him to find you.

Don’t just settle with any “good guy with potential”.

Wait for a “Godly man with proven character.”

But don’t just wait.

LIVE while you wait.

Be so content in Christ that you don’t need a guy to pursue you to fulfill your heart.

Live for JESUS, not for the day your Prince Charming will come.

You are bought with a price that only a Prince should be able to treasure you for the jewel you are.

You will not be just another weed picked from the ground, you are a set aside bloom that will blossom in the perfect timing of someone who will love and treasure you always.

Don’t let any number from a guy or any guy that has crushed you make you believe that you are invaluable.

You are priceless… and just “potential” can’t love you for who you are.

Only a man after God’s own heart can truly love you with true love.

Be a set apart women who doesn’t toy with the emotions of guys hearts just to receive fulfillment.

Be hard to get, not because you want to play a game, but because you are running your race for the glory of God with endurance. You don’t need any hindrance to keep you from Him.

So, friend, keep running your race with your eyes locked on Jesus.

God will stop you when the right one is equipped to run this race w/ you all for the glory of God.

5 thoughts on “Purposeful Dating // Dear Ladies, Don’t Play Hard To Get.

  1. All I can say is oh my gosh. I literally not more than an hour ago just finished praying….asking God to please fill the yearning for “Prince Charming” in my heart with something more glorifying to HIS name and to help me not think so much about “Mr. right”. Still thinking about all that, I decided to check my reader before going to bed. And this post was the first one I saw. Thank you so much! So timely. It is so encouraging for other girls like me to reach out with emotional and spiritual help like this. Thanks again. God Bless! 💖 ~Anne

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